"but not all ____ are like that!" "not all of us are _____!!!"

how about: shut the fuck up, realize that, yes, there are a lot of shitty people in your fandom/subgroup, and maybe actually do something constructive about fixing it instead of fucking whining and derailing a conversation and making it a huge spectacle about you and your dumb hurt pee pee feelings that nobody even cares about, you narcissistic poopsplash